People often claim that marriage is necessary to maintain one’s generation. Also people who live in rural areas mostly believe marriage is the best way to ensure one's life in the way of make a living. Most of the women criticise men regarding whether he had money and profession rather than appearance. On the contrary, men seperate women out with respect to her physical appearance. To my view, marriage does not need for guarantee. It is just a mutual life style,so it required to get along with your spouse and impose sacrifice. Not an unconditional surrender at all.
I also not think that marriage must seen as safeguard in life. If you have found the One you would want to spend the rest of your life with him/her with all respect and latitude. Marriage is a holy process which two person loving each other become togather. The beauty or financial power should not be a reason to marriage. Even it happened on that notion, it does not called marrige.
YanıtlaSilI must say that your last sentence impressed me. I think this can be called "a relationship based on self interest". As i sad before, you don't have to ensure yourself and your life by marriage and its laws. At first no matter whether your spouse has better job than the others or how much his/her income. The point is your happiness, than you may consider other issues later. You can overcome all difficulties in every stage of life, but love may not find you whenever you want.
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